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Confucius: Jessamyn West: John F. Kennedy: Martin Luther King, jr.: Mohandas K. Gandhi: Sir Francis Bacon: Voltaire: Rev. Karyl Huntley Mark Twain Oscar Wilde Josh Billings A. Battista Roberto Assagioli Does forgiveness guarantee reconciliation?Not always. In some cases, reconciliation may be impossible because the offender has died. In other cases, reconciliation may not be appropriate, especially if you were attacked or assaulted. But even in those cases, forgiveness is still possible, even if reconciliation isn't. On the other hand, if the hurtful event involved a family member or friend whose relationship you otherwise value, forgiveness may lead to reconciliation. This may not happen quickly, as you both may need time to re-establish trust. But in the end, your relationship may very well be one that is rich and fulfilling. What if the person I'm forgiving doesn't change?Getting the other person to change their actions, behavior or words isn't the point of forgiveness. In fact, the other person may never change or apologize for the offense. Think of forgiveness more about how it can change your life — by bringing you more peace, happiness, and emotional and spiritual healing. Forgiveness takes away the power the other person continues to wield in your life. Through forgiveness, you choose to no longer define yourself as a victim. Forgiveness is done primarily for yourself, and less so for the person who wronged you. (By Mayo Clinic Staff) |


